The Gay Ultimate Cruising Guide for College Guys and Guys 18 and older Updated 1/5/2015

Sure you can cruise your local dorm, restroom, or local hangouts but if you prefer anonymity regarding your sexual identity then let me offer you some alternatives. 

Adult Bookstores – Xpressions, Blue Door Video, Vishara or any porn store with gloryholes or open slots between booths. Bring your dollar bills. This by far is the cheapest option you can use to hookup with guys. Or pay an extra fee to go in their “private movie section” in their store.

Sex Parties (Public) – Encore at Paddles, CumUnion at Paddles, HardDrivemen at Paddles – This is a more anonymous option just your id and money will get you admitted. No alcohol is served here so no need to be 21 or over to join this party.

Sex Parties (Private) – The Orgy Guy, Ed and Steve, CM-Buddies NYC Party – These party are held at private residences and requirement a photo or some sort and an email address. Very discreet and perfect for just starting out into group sex/orgies or just sticking to just one guy.There are other parties throughout the city and the boroughs use adventuresingroupsex.blogspot.com to find out about more.

Local Gyms -Any gym with a steam room and/or sauna such as NYSC, David Barton, Equinox, or Bally’s- Mostly handjobs, blowjobs and voyeurism are your main options. Some times even fucking especially the ones where there isn’t much employee attendants. Here are my tips/reviews on cruising gyms. #1 and #2 All of these gyms offer a guest pass for a small fee.

Craigslist Men Seeking Men/Casual Encounters – Placing an ad in these two sections can help make an connection if you prefer more intimate one-on-one or group sessions at your place or theirs.There are plenty of ads of men looking for college-age or in-college guys to hookup with so use your youth to the fullest.

Adult Theaters – Bijou Cinema, Les Hommes – These two place have private booths where you can buddy up and have some privacy when you need a place to play when you don’t have a place of your own.

UPDATE: I spoke about Mobile Hookup Apps; however, there are some websites that have mobility capabilities as well as a general website, Adam4Adam, Manhunt and BarebackRT(BBRT). Many of these sites have guys not only who are local but guys from around the world. Perfect for DL guys who don’t want to possibility of running into a guy they just hooked up with. In the Parties and Events section, you can find anonymous sex parties in your local area such as CumUnion, Nubian Dukes in Manhattan and Brooklyn, Final Destination in Brooklyn, Harlem Smashfest, GBU and NYJP (New York Jock Party) in Manhattan and Brooklyn

 If you are 21 years old or older and you are new to the city. You should definitely check out Next Magazine; it’s the official fag rag for New York City. The magazine is filled with articles, reviews, gay bar map and classified ads for escorts, massages and more. 

I hope this help. If you feel I’m not including something that imperative in this guide, please let me know. I didn’t include any outside locations for the simple fact that the risk is higher and the payoff is not worth it unless you’re into getting caught then that’s another story.

Much love and cum
DC