What To Wear To Saint at Large’s The Black Party? Updated 2/15/17

This post was inspired by my tweets with @bluebaileyXXX on Twitter. He stated that he needed an outfit being that it was his first time- a virgin Black Party attendee. See even a porn star can be virgin…at something. 😉

My belief is that they’re two types of outfits for the Black Party: one outfit is for dancing and the other one is for dirty gay fun. No one should dress up as a saint in street clothes or anything that doesn’t oozes sex. So, what is the differences between going out dancing and fucking.

Dancing Outfit

The Dress Code for Black Party is dress heavy so what does that mean actually. My interpretation of that means dress in heavy leather and/or rubber gear. For a better explanation, I turn to the dress code posted on The Eagle website for Code Thursdays.

This is the Dress Code at The Eagle NOT The Black Party but it’s helpful.

However, at the Black Party the dress code isn’t strictly enforced only encouraged. My first year, I wore denim jeans with a rubber jockstrap, leather armband and a leather mask, I was worried about someone recognizing me. HA, Got over that

Any of these attire is perfect for meeting up with friends, having drinks and dancing the night away into the wee hours of the next morning or afternoon depending on your endurance. I would like to also suggest celebrating the theme of the event as well as like oriental-inspired for the Japanese Underworld in previous, circus-related attire for last year’s Dirty Carnival. This year theme is Ruined Paradise, in India. So Indian-inspired garb to accent your Leather attire would be keen.

Dirty Gay Fun (Fucking) Outfit

As you may have already figured/heard or read my previous adventures at the Black Party, the porn stars aren’t the only ones engaged in STRANGE ACTS. The Black Party is the most hedonistic sexual celebration in New York City. After my first experience at the Black Party, I learned two things: 1) it gets very hot in those dark rooms and even hotter when you’re overdressed; 2)if you’re intentions are to play at the Black Party then you should be wearing nothing more than what you would wear to bed with a one night stand. Here’s what you need – a jockstrap/short boxer briefs, long socks and black leather, rubber or sneakers and a watch. THAT’S ALL. With the occasional leather harness and/or metal accessories or theme-related accessories. Anything else is too much. I will explain why

Harness – Leather/Synthetic Fibers – when it comes to leather fetish nothing says “I’m a pig” or “I’m a freak” like a harness gear. The harness comes in so many variations it’s hard to keep up with which one should one purchase so I will leave that up to you to decide. It’s the perfect gear to wear to complete one’s look at any circuit party.

Jockstrap/Short Boxer Briefs – It gets very hot just walking down the corridors and you will begin to perspire even before you begin to have fun. The jockstraps/boxer briefs allows easy access for tops and bottoms and less material that will be cover in sweat either yours or his. If you’re afraid of being that exposed in public. GET OVER IT. It’s the Black Party NOT some posh nightclub. Unless you can handle the heat then by all means wear whatever you want.

Long Socks – The purpose of wearing long socks is the sole purpose of it being your wallet and coat check ticket holder. The last thing you want happening is you losing your wallet while you’re getting fucked or fucking someone. For long socks, I recommend Nasty Pig, they’re my personal favorite. The title speaks for itself. I can’t think of anyone off the top of my head that does long socks very well.

Black Leather/Rubber/Sneakers/Boots –  This item is not necessarily required but it helps keep the leather community alive within the gay community. Wearing Black Leather/Rubber Boots and Sneakers is like wearing a mask to a masquerade party; it just helps you get into the spirit of the event.

Watch – In this day and age, we rely less and less on a watch because we have our own personal one on our phones and anyone who has ever attended the Black Party knows. NO CELLPHONES AND/OR RECORDING DEVICES ALLOWED AT THE BLACK PARTY!!! You must check your phone and/or electronic recording devices in first before you get admitted into the main doors. This is where having a watch becomes critical especially if you have to be somewhere or meet up with someone at a certain time. Buy a cheap disposable watch to have in order to keep up with your party or your next appointment/brunch.

Optional item: A Small Hand Towel or some sort of Dry Cloth to wipe off the sweat and cool off quicker.

I hope these tips help you in your search for the perfect outfit for the Black Party.

Coming Up: DC’s Black Party Survival Guide – Stay Tuned

Much Love and Cum
DC 

PS. Blue thanks again. I had fun typing this post.