A listing of upcoming gay cruising parties, sex (play) parties and special events happening in San Francisco (SF), California in 2023.
SAN FRANCISCO (SF) GAY CRUISING/PLAY PARTIES/EVENTS 2023
DECEMBER
SATURDAY, DECEMBER 30TH
SUNDAY, DECEMBER 31ST
SEPTEMBER
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 3RD
NAME: HEAVEN – INTO THE DARKNESS
DATE: SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 3RD, 2023
TIME: 8PM-2AM
HOST(S): KY MARTINEZ
MUSIC: DJ NICK STRACENER & DJ JOSHUA RUIZ
VENUE: HALCYON
ADDRESS: 314 11TH ST (SAN FRANCISCO)
MORE INFO: KY MARTINEZ ANNUAL BIRTHDAY BASH
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 22ND
NAME: PRIME MEAT
DATE: FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 22ND, 2023
TIME: 10PM-4AM
HOST(S): TROPHYDAD
MUSIC: UPSTAIRS: NEON THE GLOWGOBEAR; IN THE DADDY PIT: DJ SERGE
VENUE: CLUB SIX
ADDRESS: 60 SIXTH ST, SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: BOTH FLOORS
NAME: FLSM FRIDAY
DATE: FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 22ND, 2023
TIME: 10PM-4AM
HOST(S): BRUT
MUSIC: DJ HECTOR FONSECA & DJ DEANNE
VENUE: THE GREAT NORTHERN
ADDRESS: 119 UTAH ST (SAN FRANCISCO)
MORE INFO: TICKETS @ BRUPARTY.COM
SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 23RD
NAME: MATINEE PERVERT XXL
DATE: SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 23RD, 2023
TIME: 9PM-LATE
HOST(S): MATINEE GROUP
MUSIC: DJ TOM STEPHAN, DJ EDU QUINTAS, DJ NINA FLOWERS, DJ JACK CHANG; GODS & MONSTERS ROOM: DJ EDDIE MARTINEZ
VENUE: THE MIDWAY
ADDRESS: 900 MARIN ST, SAN FRANCISCO
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NAME: X-RATED
DATE: SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 23RD 2023
TIME: 10PM-4AM
HOST(S): KY MARTINEZ
MUSIC: DJ ALEX RAMOS, DJ DANNY VERDE & DJ MARTI FRIESON
VENUE: SPACE 550
ADDRESS: 550 BARNEVELD (SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: THE OFFICIAL PRE-PARTY FOR AFTERSHOCK; FOLSOM WEEKEND 2023
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 24TH
NAME: AFTERSHOCK (AFTERHOURS)
DATE: SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 24TH, 2023
TIME: 4AM-10AM
HOST(S): KY MARTINEZ
MUSIC: DJ ABEL; DJ JITO GARCIA, DJ BILL WORTHEN & DJ KYLE PICKETT
VENUE: CITY NIGHTS
ADDRESS: 715 HARRISON @ 3RD (SAN FRANCISCO)
MORE INFO: CUM DIRECTLY FROM RATED X – GET YOUR TWO-PARTY PASS @ KYMARTINEZ.COM
NAME: XL – FOLSOM STREET FAIR
DATE: SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 24TH, 2023
TIME: 11AM-6PM
HOST(S): FOLSOM STREET FAIR
MUSIC: LIVE DJ
VENUE: STREET FAIR
ADDRESS: FOLSOM STREET & 8TH STREET
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NAME: HOT TEA
DATE: SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 24TH, 2023
TIME: 5PM-12AM (MIDNIGHT)
HOST(S): CECIL RUSSELL & EVAN J-SUN
MUSIC: DJ CINDEL & DJ AARON AANENSON
VENUE: 316 11TH STREET
ADDRESS: 316 11TH STREET, SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: LEATHER EDITION
NAME: SANCTUM
DATE: SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 24TH, 2023
TIME: 10PM-4AM
HOST(S): KY MARTINEZ
MUSIC: DJ ALEX ACOSTA & DJ ALEXANDER RENDO
VENUE: CITY NIGHTS
ADDRESS: 715 HARRISON ST (SAN FRANCISCO)
MORE INFO: OFFICIAL PRE-PARTY FOR NOCTURNAL EXTREME; VIP INCLUDES ACCESS TO THE PIG BALCONY
NAME: NOCTURNAL – EXTREME AFTERHOURS
DATE: MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 25TH, 2023
TIME: 3:30AM-9:30AM
HOST(S): KY MARTINEZ
MUSIC: DJ PAULO
VENUE: HALCYON
ADDRESS: 314 11TH ST (SAN FRANCISCO)
MORE INFO: FOLSOM STREET FAIR; FOLSOM
JULY
TUESDAY, JULY 25TH
NAME: FETISH TUESDAYS – PRIMAL
DATE: TUESDAY, JULY 25TH, 2023
TIME: 8PM
HOST(S): SADYST PAYNE
MUSIC: SUPPOSITORI SPELLING
VENUE: POWERHOUSE
ADDRESS: 1347 FOLSOM ST
MORE INFO: EMCEE BY MOTHER JOSEPH; DANCER, DRINKS, DEMOS
NAME: DORE KICK OFF LEATHERLAND
DATE: TUESDAY, JULY 25TH, 2023
TIME:
HOST(S): TRUCK TUESDAY
MUSIC: DJ FAWKS & DJ MILOS GILIC
VENUE: PRIVATE LOCATION
ADDRESS: PRIVATE LOCATION IN SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: PRE-PAY COVER; FATTEST TUESDAY EVER
WEDNESDAY, JULY 26TH
NAME: DIRTY ALLEY
DATE: WEDNESDAY, JULY 26TH, 2023
TIME: 9PM-2AM
HOST(S): MR. S LEATHER
MUSIC: LIVE DJ
VENUE: POWERHOUSE
ADDRESS: 1347 FOLSOM ST
MORE INFO: FOLSOM 2023
NAME: NSA @ OMG UNDERWEAR PARTY
DATE: WEDNESDAY, JULY 26TH, 2023
TIME: 10PM-2AM
HOST(S): CLUB OMG
MUSIC: LIVE DJ
VENUE: CLUB OMG
ADDRESS: 43 6TH STREET (SAN FRANCISCO)
MORE INFO: DIM LIGHTS, SEXY BARTENDERS, HORNY CROWD; DOORS CLOSES @ 1AM
THURSDAY, JULY 27TH
NAME: WEAR SOME CHONIES
DATE: THURSDAY, JULY 27TH, 2023
TIME: 9PM-2AM
HOST(S): UEL RENTERIA
MUSIC: DJ TIM
VENUE: POWERHOUSE
ADDRESS: 1347 FOLSOM ST
MORE INFO: $100 MIDNIGHT WET UNDERWEAR CONTEST
JULY 28TH-30TH
NAME: UP YOUR ALLEY @ STEAMWORKS BATHS
DATE: JULY 28TH-30TH
TIME:
HOST(S): STEAMWORKS BATHS
MUSIC: NO LIVE DJ
VENUE: STEAMWORKS BATHS
ADDRESS: 2107 4TH ST (BERKELEY)
MORE INFO: THE MOST TWISTED WEEKEND OF SUMMER IS HERE!
FRIDAY, JULY 28TH
NAME: HORSEMARKET SAN FRANCISCO
DATE: FRIDAY, JULY 28TH, 2023
TIME: 6:15PM
HOST(S): HORSE MARKET SAN FRANCISCO
MUSIC: NO LIVE DJ
VENUE: PRIVATE LOCATION
ADDRESS: PRIVATE LOCATION IN SAN FRANCISCO
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NAME: HAPPY HOUR
DATE: FRIDAY, JULY 28TH, 2023
TIME: 7PM-9PM
HOST(S): BARE CHEST CALENDAR 2024
MUSIC: LIVE DJ
VENUE: POWERHOUSE
ADDRESS: 1347 POWERHOUSE ST (
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NAME: CUMUNION
DATE: FRIDAY, JULY 28TH, 2023
TIME: 9PM-3AM
HOST(S): STEAMWORKS BATHS
MUSIC: DJ HONEYBEAR
VENUE: STEAMWORKS BATHS
ADDRESS: 2107 4TH ST (BERKELEY)
MORE INFO: THE NOTORIOUS DOWN & DIRTY BATHHOUSE EVENT – UP YOUR ALLEY WEEKEND EDITION
NAME: STANK & DORE
DATE: FRIDAY, JULY 28TH, 2023
TIME:
HOST(S): POWERHOUSE
MUSIC: DJ MIRACLES, DJ DE ALMA, DJ SPENCER ADAM, DJ BRADLEY, DJ DANNI P & MORE
VENUE: POWERHOUSE
ADDRESS: 1347 FOLSOM ST (SAN FRANCISCO)
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NAME: PRIME DADDY ALLEY
DATE: FRIDAY, JULY 28TH, 2023
TIME: 10PM-4AM
HOST(S): TROPHYDAD
MUSIC: DJ NEON THE GLOWGOBEAR
VENUE: THE MIDWAY
ADDRESS: 900 MARIN ST, SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: DORE ALLEY FRIDAY
SATURDAY, JULY 29TH
NAME: SPLAT!
DATE: SATURDAY, JULY 29TH, 2023
TIME: 1PM-5PM
HOST(S): DORE RUBBER SOCIAL
MUSIC: LIVE DJ
VENUE: POWERHOUSE
ADDRESS: 1347 FOLSOM ST (SAN FRANCISCO)
MORE INFO: RUBBER SF & RUBBER DUCKY
NAME: BLACK, BROWN & KINKY – DORE EDITION
DATE: SATURDAY, JULY 29TH, 2023
TIME: 5PM-9PM
HOST(S): ONYX NORTHWEST
MUSIC: LIVE DJ
VENUE: POWERHOUSE
ADDRESS: 1347 FOLSOM STREET (SAN FRANCISCO)
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NAME: HORSE MARKET SAN FRANCISCO
DATE: SATURDAY, JULY 29TH, 2023
TIME: 6:15PM
HOST(S): HORSE MARKET SAN FRANCISCO
MUSIC: NO LIVE DJ
VENUE: PRIVATE LOCATION
ADDRESS: PRIVATE LOCATION IN SAN FRANCISCO
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NAME: HEATHENS
DATE: SATURDAY, JULY 29TH, 2023
TIME: 8PM-2AM
HOST(S): MR. PAM, SISTER ROMA & BETH BICOASTAL
MUSIC: DJ NARK (NEIN/BOTTOM FORTY)
VENUE: SF EAGLE
ADDRESS: 398 12TH ST (SAN FRANCISCO)
MORE INFO: $15-20; APPEARANCE BY: JAKE MORGAN
NAME: LICKIN’ NUTZ
DATE: SATURDAY, JULY 29TH, 2023
TIME: 9PM-2AM
HOST(S): GLAMAMORE & LANCE HOLMAN
MUSIC: DJ EDDIE HOUSE
VENUE: POWERHOUSE
ADDRESS: 1347 FOLSOM ST
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NAME: SLEAZE BALL
DATE: SATURDAY, JULY 29TH, 2023
TIME: 9PM-2AM
HOST(S): LONE STAR SALOON
MUSIC: DJ CHAKAQUAN
VENUE: LONE STAR SALOON
ADDRESS:
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NAME: NSA @ OMG – UNDERWEAR PARTY
DATE: SATURDAY, JULY 29TH, 2023
TIME: 10PM-2AM
HOST(S): CLUB OMG
MUSIC: LIVE DJ
VENUE: CLUB OMG
ADDRESS: 43 6TH STREET (SAN FRANCISCO)
MORE INFO: COVER @ DOOR $20 BUY IN ADVANCE $15; FREE CLOTHES CHECK; COMBO TIX FOR BOTH DAYS $25; NSADORE23.BPT.ME
NAME: SF DORE ALLEY
DATE: SATURDAY, JULY 29TH, 2023
TIME: 10PM-4AM
HOST(S): BRUT PARTY
MUSIC: DJ MORABITO & DJ DAN DARLINGTON
VENUE: THE GREAT NORTHERN
ADDRESS: 119 UTAH ST, SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: TICKETS @ BRUTPARTY.COM
NAME: X-RATED
DATE: SATURDAY, JULY 29TH, 2023
TIME: 10PM-5AM
HOST(S): KY MARTINEZ
MUSIC: DJ PAULO & DJ ALE MAES
VENUE: 550 BARNEVELD AVE
ADDRESS: 550 BARNEVELD AVE
MORE INFO: UP YOUR ALLEY WEEKEND 2023 – MAIN EVENT; VIP TICKETS GRANTS: CUT THE LINE, ACCESS TO VIP COATCHECK; ACCESS TO THE PIG ROOM & VIP BALCONY
NAME: SNEAKS
DATE: SATURDAY, JULY 29TH, 2023
TIME: 10PM
HOST(S): POLYGLAMOROUS
MUSIC: DJ SHARLIESE & DJ D’ADHEMAR; DJ SQUISH, DJ BEYA & DJ MARK O’BRIEN
VENUE: CLUB SIX
ADDRESS:
MORE INFO: MANDATORY DRESS CODE: MUST WEAR SNEAKERS, GYM SPORTS GEAR; CLOTHES CHECK AVAILABLE
SUNDAY, JULY 30TH
NAME: RITUAL (AFTERHOURS)
DATE: SUNDAY, JULY 30TH, 2023
TIME: 4AM-9AM
HOST(S): REAL BAD
MUSIC: DJ JUANMA ESCUDERO
VENUE: 1015 FOLSOM
ADDRESS: 1015 FOLSOM
MORE INFO: 100% OF NET PROCEEDS BENEFIT THE GRASS ROOTS GAY RIGHTS FOUNDATION
NAME: UP YOUR ALLEY
DATE: SUNDAY, JULY 30TH, 2023
TIME: 11AM-6PM
HOST(S): FOLSOM STREET FAIR
MUSIC: LIVE PERFORMANCE & DEMO
VENUE: FOLSOM ST & 9TH STREET
ADDRESS: FOLSOM & DORE
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NAME: PARTY ON THE PATIO – DORE ALLEY EDITION
DATE: SUNDAY, JULY 30TH, 2023
TIME: 12PM-7PM
HOST(S): SF EAGLE
MUSIC: DJ SPAZATRONICA, DJ JIM HOPKINS, DJ HOUSEPLANT PARADISE, DJ KELLY NAUGHTON, & SPECIAL SET BY DJ TOMMY ROCKER
VENUE: SF EAGLE
ADDRESS: 398 12TH ST
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NAME: STICK IT UP YOUR ALLEY
DATE: SUNDAY, JULY 30TH, 2023
TIME: 1PM-9PM
HOST(S): LONE STAR SALOON
MUSIC: DJ BEN FONIK & DJ PRINCE WOLF
VENUE: LONE STAR SALOON
ADDRESS:
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NAME: CUMUNION – DORE ALLEY STREET FAIR
DATE: SUNDAY, JULY 30TH, 2023
TIME: 3PM-12AM
HOST(S): 442 EVENTS
MUSIC: NO LIVE DJ
VENUE: 1060 FOLSOM ST
ADDRESS: 1060 FOLSOM ST
MORE INFO: DORE ALLEY STREET FAIR
NAME: NSA @ OMG – UNDERWEAR PARTY
DATE: SUNDAY, JULY 30TH, 2023
TIME: 4PM-8PM
HOST(S): CLUB OMG
MUSIC: LIVE DJ
VENUE: CLUB OMG
ADDRESS: 43 6TH STREET (SAN FRANCISCO)
MORE INFO: COVER @ DOOR $20 BUY IN ADVANCE $15; FREE CLOTHES CHECK; COMBO TIX FOR BOTH DAYS $25; NSADORE23.BPT.ME
NAME: HEAVEN
DATE: SUNDAY, JULY 30TH, 2023
TIME: 6PM-1AM
HOST(S): KY MARTINEZ
MUSIC: DJ ALEX ACOSTA & DJ GIOVANNI SAINZ
VENUE: HALCYON
ADDRESS: 314 11TH STREET, SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: DORE ALLEY WEEKEND CLOSING PARTY
NAME: ROMP – ADVENTURES IN KINKLAND
DATE: SUNDAY, JULY 30TH, 2023
TIME: 6PM-1AM
HOST(S): BRIAN KENT & PARADIGM
MUSIC: DJ RUSS RICH
VENUE: 1015 FOLSOM
ADDRESS: 1015 FOLSOM (SAN FRANCISCO)
MORE INFO: TICKETS & INFO @ ROMPSF.COM
NAME: SHAGGIN ON DORE
DATE: SUNDAY, JULY 30TH, 2023
TIME: 8PM
HOST(S): MOTHER JOSEPH & FAUXKING GUIDO
MUSIC: LIVE DJ
VENUE: POWERHOUSE
ADDRESS: 1347 FOLSOM ST
MORE INFO: 70S TO 90S DANCE PARTY
JUNE
SATURDAY, JUNE 3RD
NAME: ASCEND – PRE-PRIDE KICK-OFF
DATE: SATURDAY, JUNE 3RD, 2023
TIME: 9PM-4AM
HOST(S): EVAN J-SUN & CECIL RUSSELL
MUSIC: DJ CONFETTI CANON, DJ PAULO FRAGOSO & DJ JACK CHANG
VENUE: THE MIDWAY
ADDRESS: 900 MARIN ST., SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: PRE PRIDE KICK-OFF
FRIDAY, JUNE 23RD
NAME: HEAT
DATE: FRIDAY, JUNE 23RD, 2023
TIME: 10PM-4AM
HOST(S): CECIL RUSSELL
MUSIC: DJ EDDIE MARTINEZ & DJ ISAAC ESCALANTE
VENUE: GREAT NORTHERN
ADDRESS: 119 UTAH ST, SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: FEEL THE ENERGY! FEEL THE HEAT!
SUNDAY, JUNE 25TH
NAME: HOT TEA
DATE: SUNDAY, JUNE 25TH, 2023
TIME: 5PM-12AM (MIDNIGHT)
HOST(S): CECIL RUSSELL
MUSIC: DJ TYLER MOORE, DJ BUGIE, DJ PUMPKIN SPICE, DJ JOE GAUTHREAUX, DJ JUKA, & DJ JOE PACHECO
VENUE: 316 11TH STREET
ADDRESS: 316 11TH STREET, SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: 6TH ANNUAL PRIDE T-DANCE
NAME: ASCEND
DATE: SUNDAY, JUNE 25TH, 2023
TIME: 10:30PM-LATE
HOST(S): EVAN J-SUN & CECIL RUSSELL
MUSIC: DJ NINA FLOWERS & DJ ARNO DIEM
VENUE: DNA LOUNGE
ADDRESS: 375 11TH ST, SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: PRIDE S.F. CLOSING PARTY
MAY
SATURDAY, MAY 27TH
NAME: NOCTURNAL PRIMETIME – 10TH YEAR ANNIVERSARY
DATE: SATURDAY, MAY 27TH, 2023
TIME: 10PM-4AM
HOST(S): KY MARTINEZ
MUSIC: DJ GSP & DJ ROSS RICH
VENUE: DNA LOUNGE
ADDRESS: 375 ELEVENTH STREET, SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: MEMORIAL WEEKEND SAN FRANCISCO
SUNDAY, MAY 28TH
NAME: POLYGLAMOROUS
DATE: MAY 28TH, 2023
TIME: 10PM-4AM
HOST(S): POLYGLAMOROUS
MUSIC: DJ KEENAN ORR, DJ DANGEROUS ROSE, DJ BRIAN MAIER, DJ MARK O’BRIEN & DJ BEYA
VENUE: PUBLIC WORKS
ADDRESS:
MORE INFO: MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND
NAME: IMAGINA – THE GALAXY
DATE: SUNDAY, MAY 28TH, 2023
TIME: 10PM-LATE
HOST(S): KY MARTINEZ
MUSIC: DJ ABEL & DJ MOHAMMAD
VENUE: 715 HARRISON ST
ADDRESS: 715 HARRISON ST, SAN FRANCISCO
MORE INFO: MEMORIAL WEEKEND SAN FRANCISCO
APRIL
SATURDAY, APRIL 1ST
SATURDAY, APRIL 15TH
TROPHYDAD PRESENTS PRIME: HEATSTROKE W/ DJS NEON THE GLOWGOBEAR & DJ SERGE @ CLUB SIX
APRIL 21ST – 22ND
HORSE MARKET SAN FRANCISCO @ PRIVATE SF LOCATION
MARCH
FRIDAY, MARCH 10TH
CUBCAKE W/ DJ PAUL GOODYEAR @ CUBCAKE
BLUF SF HARD – LEATHER. CIGARS. BOOTS. @ SF EAGLE
SATURDAY, MARCH 11TH
STUDIO 5’4″ MUSIC BY SUBEAUX & MONIBOT @ LONE STAR SALOON
SATURDAY, MARCH 18TH
FABULOUSME & FURBALL PRESENT CLUBLAND MUSIC BY DJS TONY MORAN & PHIL B @ SPACE 550
SATURDAY, MARCH 25TH
SLEAZE BALL – UNDERWEAR NIGHT W/ DJ SIR ELLIS @ LONE STAR SALOON
FEBRUARY
SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 18TH
JANUARY
SUNDAY, JANUARY 15TH
SATURDAY, JANUARY 21ST
ASCEND & HEAT PRESENT SURGE SUPERSTAR DJ’S GSP & RICK BRAILE @ THE MIDWAY
