LNC’s Black Party Survival Guide – 6 Things You Need to Know Before You Attend This Party at Roseland Ballroom
Now that you gotten your ticket, figured out what you’re going to wear. The main event has arrived and all the nerves and anxiety have diminished. Now you’re ready to dive in the hedonistic pool of sex, music and leather. Before you get start to play or dance. They’re a few things that you should know.
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1. No Changing Rooms.There isn’t a changing room only bathrooms so if you get in line or (on line) you strip where you are. THAT’S RIGHT. Leave your inhibitions at the door or check it in with your bag and belongings. No one is sitting around judging you about your weight, style of dress or any of that nonsense you deal with at a typical gay club. GET OVER IT.
2. Don’t Play Where You Shit. Bathrooms are for piss and shit and to clean up. NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS. You have the whole venue to play in. Don’t hold up the stalls and urinals because you want to be prissy and discreet. Save that bullshit for somewhere else.
3. Survey The Area. Don’t go get a drink and find the nearest corner and hole up in that spot all night. If you’re not sure if you feel comfortable in large venue areas like this then I suggest you go early so you can get familiarize with the venue and calm your nerves so you can feel more at ease to roam around when it gets busy because it will.
4. Stay Hyrdate. If you plan on staying most of the duration of the party. Balance your fluids between alcohol, water/gatorade, and for you pigs-cum. If you’re going to hardcore in the play area, stay away from the alcohol and stick with the gatorade and water in order to keep up your endurance and keep cool.
5. Pace Yourself, You Have All Night and Tomorrow Afternoon. You will have so many opportunities to have fun. Don’t fuck if you don’t want to or cant’ for whatever reason. There will be more opportunities and more Black Parties. Live in the moment and and don’t over think things. *That’s something I struggle with at times*
6. Post-Black. Make sure you have comfortable clothes and some sort of body odor repellant deodorant, AXE body spray or such and maybe some sunglasses to protect your eyes from being in the dark rooms.
I think that’s it. You know when and where it happens, what to wear and what you should do. So go out have fun and take care.
Much Love and Cum
DC
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DC,
Have you been to any of the Nubian Duke parties or Dmitri's Testosterone parties? A review on either of these events would be super helpful and fun to read!
^^ I agree.^^ Reviews of parties around the city might be fun to get a better idea of the vibe. ^__^
I have been to Testosterone party before I was really late in attending so I'm going to check it out again and be on time. I went to the Executive Lunch party and that was fun.
Nubian Duke's I've heard mixed reviews but of course, I would like to review it for myself. I will put those two on the top of my list. I had to take a break from the big parties after the Black Party and did just some one-on-one action using Scruff and Grindr. Be on the look out for those reviews as well. Thanks for the comments