9 Ways To Find A Gay Sex Party

You’ve probably seen countless articles about going to a gay sex party but very few mention ways to find these elusive sex parties. Gay sex parties have gone from paper flyers and word-of-mouth to digital and social media thus reaching a larger market. Here’s a hint: if you’re reading this article, you already found one source that will help you find one. So let’s get started.

1. LATE NIGHT CRUISIN’

LATE NIGHT CRUISIN'
LATE NIGHT CRUISIN’

*Shameless Plug* It’s the very reason why I started the website. My mission was to help gay men find not only sex parties but underground cruisy events that were not featured in gay rags “magazines”. I wanted to create a safe space where sex parties and circuit/dance parties could co-exist without censorship like you see on most social media platforms. LNC list parties based on cities and categories with constant updates to parties and directory for other websites, articles and guides in our links page. Late Night Cruisin is a subscription based site where you can view a certain amount of pages before you must sign up to gain access to the entire website.

In addition to the party listings, we have a free podcast and blog that you can view on the website as well as a links page to your favorite gay websites all in one place.

Take a look at the other sites that will provide more information on where you can find Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now.


2. ADAM 4 ADAM

ADAM 4 ADAM
ADAM 4 ADAM

Adam4Adam is an online gay dating website has a party listing section where party promoters can advertise a public or private sex or fetish parties. You can select the parties based on your location or other places that you may think of visiting.

The reason why you can see sex parties on A4A and not hookup apps like Grindr and Scruff us because it’s a website and not an app (application) which have to go through a much stricter process set by Apple and Google to prevent violating federal laws of sexual solicitation/trafficking.


3. WICKED GAY PARTIES

WICKED GAY PARTIES
WICKED GAY PARTIES

Wicked Gay Parties this is another party listing site that promotes gay sex parties happening around the United States and Canada. Wicked Gay Parties is a subscription based site where you view a certain amount of content for free before you must pay to the view the latest party updates. They also host their own safe-sex only party. 


4. REGIONAL/CITY SEX PARTY LISTINGS

MENPLAYLA.COM YOUR CALENDAR OF ALL-MALE EVENTS IN LOS ANGELES
MENPLAYLA.COM YOUR CALENDAR OF ALL-MALE EVENTS IN LOS ANGELES

Some  gay travel sites like Vamosgay.com and Patroc.com cover certain regions around the world. For instances, Vamosgay covers select gay cities in Latin America (parts of Central and South America) with listings of cruising clubs, bathhouses, saunas, cruising spots and more. Patroc covers many parts of Europe with listing of cruising clubs, saunas and bathhouses. MenPlayLA.com is a gay sex party listing for Los Angeles and surrounding Southern California region.


5. SOCIAL MEDIA

Printed flyers and ads are still prevalent in printed magazines but most ads have gone digital with the arrival of social networks and media. Sites like Facebook and Instagram don’t allow the use of sexual explicit or solicitation on this sites so promoters must be creative in their promotional ads to promote their parties without violating the terms and conditions of  the social media platforms. Keywords like play party, men-only private events, and freak parties are used to veil their actual event to avoid penalties and getting their account disable.

Twitter, on the hand, will allow explicit content with images and videos; however accounts have been known to get suspended for spamming. So be mindful of your frequency of posting and soliciting customers for money. Honorable Mention, Snapchat is another app that some can find sex parties; however, it’s based on who you know and it is not readily available to all adults.


6. CUMUNION

CUMUNION - AN INTERNATIONAL SEX PARTY
CUMUNION – AN INTERNATIONAL SEX PARTY

Cumunion Is the international sex party organization that hosts parties in various cities around the world. These parties are publicly promoted on their website based on location with some cities having multiple events per month. These parties are usually hosted at bathhouses, private gyms and sex clubs. They are constantly looking for promoters in cities that don’t usually host sex parties to fill that need. if you are looking to host an events in your town, shoot them an email.


7. GAY CAMPS

Gay Camps will host cruisy themed play parties on some weekends and/or holiday nights with some including gay porn stars. Gay Camps are a perfect option for gay men who don’t live in large gay cities simply because most gay camps are located in rural areas of the United States and Canada. We have a full list of gay camps in the United States and Canada under our Adventures tab on our site.


8. BBRT (BAREBACK REAL TIME)

BBRT (BAREBACK REAL TIME)
BBRT (BAREBACK REAL TIME)

Bareback RealTime (BBRT) is what the name states a bareback website for men looking to hook up with other men for bareback sex. They have party listing for private sex party events usually very small private events. Some of these may allow drug use so be mindful of the party’s rules and conduct before you request to attend. 


9. NASTY KINK PIGS

NASTYKINKPIGS.COM
NASTYKINKPIGS.COM

 Nasty Kink Pigs is a gay sex and fetish website that has a party listing section where guys can promote sex parties as well as the owners of the site hosts large sex parties in various cities mostly on the west coast of the United States. One point to make is that many parties allow heavy drug use so make sure to ask about the drug policy before attending a party.

Word of advice: Slamming is not term that’s used to describe the party but more so an type of way that some gay men like to have fun at a a party.

Written by Rick Easley

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Rick Easley is the owner of Late Night Cruisin’ website and the host of the podcast Late Night Cruisin’ along with his co-host Brian Miceli.

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